Why Asking for Help Changed My Life
Please don't let circumstances hold you back from following your heart’s whispers.
We’ve invited Sam Messersmith to guest post for us this week.
I knew when I first met Sam that she is exactly the kind of creator we want participating in the Creator Retreat Small Group Cohort community.
Sam is the winner of one of our The Creator Retreat Cohort Scholarships.
We have other scholarships available and will be offering them to applicants before the program begins in March. To be eligible for a scholarship, you must apply for The Creator Retreat Cohort.
Applications open soon.
I knew I wanted to be there
I never thought of myself as a “fangirl” until I encountered the living rainbow unicorn that is . Her energy, insight, and authenticity captivated me from the moment I joined a webinar she co-hosted with
, an affirmation guru I followed.At the time, affirmations had lost their spark for me, and I was searching for a fresh perspective. TeriLeigh provided just that—and more. She spoke about the power of words, not just in their definitions but in how they resonate within our bodies.
It felt like sound therapy for the soul.
Her words struck such a deep chord that I rewound and replayed her insights multiple times, savoring every bit. From that moment, I knew I wanted to learn more. I subscribed to her Substack and found her proclaiming her weirdness. She even reframes her sensitivities as superpowers.
My inner weirdo feels seen!
A month later, TeriLeigh put out a call for interviews for some research. I didn’t know exactly what I was signing up for—I just knew I loved her energy and wanted to chat. The nerves I felt before that call melted away as TeriLeigh’s warm smile welcomed me.
That conversation opened my eyes to new possibilities and planted the seeds for what would become The Creator Retreat 🌳 —a space to connect with others, learn new ideas, and embrace the creative process in a supportive community.
I knew I wanted to be there.
But, I had a small problem: lack of financial resources.
In the past, I have let money make my decisions for me.
Now, I am done with that limiting belief.
I drafted an email to TeriLeigh and asked if there was any way to receive financial assistance. Before clicking send on my email, I hesitated. Imposter syndrome whispered doubts:
Was I “worthy”? Was my writing “good enough”?
But something deeper told me to take the leap.
Butterflies in my stomach, I opened the reply from TeriLeigh. It began: "After you and I met on zoom for my 'heart research' about this project, I wrote a post-it note to myself that said 'Sam Messersmith - The Creator Retreat Scholarship'! " Tears began streaming down my cheeks. Tears of gratitude.
Being awarded the scholarship felt like an invitation to step into something bigger than myself. It wasn’t just financial support; it was a sign that my voice matters. It has given me the confidence to show up authentically, to honor my creative journey, and to prepare myself for the connections and growth that The Creator Retreat promises.
While I’ve yet to experience the retreat itself, I’m already seeing the ripples of transformation.
If you’re considering applying for The Creator Retreat or working one-on-one with TeriLeigh, do it.
Trust that inner nudge.
Please don't let circumstances hold you back from following your heart’s whispers.
You never know what the Universe has in store when you reach out your hand. Whether you’re seeking clarity, creativity, or simply a place to feel truly seen, you’ll find it with TeriLeigh and Ryan at The Creator Retreat. I can't wait to see you there!
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In the past, I have let money make my decisions for me.
Now, I am done with that limiting belief.
Like Sam, I’ve let money dictate too many of my decisions in the past, even dampening my joy in experiences I’d already paid for. That’s why, when I created The Creator Retreat, I knew I had to rethink the usual rules about money and online programs.
I can’t follow the typical marketing scripts of scarcity, urgency, or objection-handling. They feel manipulative, and I need to stay 100% in my integrity. I’m a weirdo, after all, and I love finding weirdo-ways to do things.
When people experience something truly meaningful, there’s a natural, heartfelt desire to give back—to keep the energy flowing. This approach honors that reciprocity, making space for sensitive, creative souls to engage fully without fear of rigid structures.
The Creator Retreat operates on a unique monthly money-assessment process.
Together, participants evaluate the value they’ve gained and the energy we’ve invested in creating this space. While there’s a suggested minimum payment to sustain the program, I believe so deeply in this retreat’s power that I know the cohort participants will feel its value too.
If The Creator Retreat calls to you, we hope you will trust that everything is figure-out-able. Apply—and let your weird, wonderful heart guide you.
Priority will be given to cohort applicants who are paid subscribers. If you are selected for the cohort program, you subscription payments will be applied to your cohort down payment. If you are not selected for the cohort program, you will retain your membership as a self-study participant.
Applications Open Soon
Thank you! Your presence here means so much. Keep writing.
Congratulations, Sam on your first publication. I’m glad you reached out to the group. I’m sure it wasn’t easy to ask Teri for help. And it is an act of courage. I wish you further successes in your writing journey.